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You're Stuck on the Hamster Wheel, Drowning in Self-Doubt, and Your Professional Dreams Feel Impossible to Reach
Lead Yourself First - and Finally Reach Your Career Goals
The Leadership Woman’s guide to Becoming You - A 6-week online course that helps overwhelmed mid-career women master self-leadership to achieve their professional goals and break free from overwhelm and self-doubt.
You Know There's More to Your Career Than This... But You Can't See a Way Out
You wake up every morning with that familiar knot in your stomach. Another day of feeling like you're failing at work and at home. Another day of wanting more but not knowing where to begin. You tell yourself you should be grateful for what you have, but deep down you're living half a life – a life for others, not the one you actually want.
Your brain never switches off. You're on a hamster wheel with no time for yourself, constantly overwhelmed, and secretly terrified that this is all there is. You have dreams of making a real difference, of advancing your career, of being seen and valued for your true potential. But every time you try to move forward, that inner critic gets louder, and self-doubt paralyzes you.
And if you're a working mother, the guilt is suffocating. You feel guilty for working at all, guilty for wanting career advancement, guilty for even thinking you deserve "me time." The voice in your head whispers that wanting more makes you selfish, that you should just be grateful for what you have.
You're not alone. And this isn't your fault.
Finally, A Way to Break Free and Unlock Your Professional Potential
The Becoming You Method isn't another generic course that leaves you wondering "now what?" It's a proven system that addresses the real problem: you can't achieve your professional goals until you master self-leadership and quiet that inner critic that's been holding you back.
This course gives you:
The tools to regulate your emotions and quiet your brain chatter – so you can think clearly and make confident decisions.
A step-by-step system to build unshakeable self-trust – so you stop second-guessing yourself and start taking action.
The confidence to be seen, heard, and valued – so you can finally get the recognition and opportunities you deserve.
Control over your choices and your life – so you feel empowered instead of overwhelmed.
The ability to make progress instead of feeling stuck – so you can actually achieve what you want to believe is possible.
Here's How You'll Transform Your Self-Leadership in Just 6 Weeks
This isn't about positive thinking or reading another book that changes nothing.
he Becoming You Method combines proven techniques from Positive Intelligence, Brain-based coaching, Process Communication Model, and Conversational Intelligence into a practical system that actually works.
This programme is designed for busy women like you:
Self-Paced Learning
You'll get video lessons you can watch anytime and simple one-page worksheets that don't overwhelm you.
Weekly Live Support
Join weekly group calls for discussion, support, and Q&A with me personally.
Lifetime Access & Community
You'll have lifetime access to all materials, plus join a private community where you can get ongoing support.
The best part? You only need 10 minutes a day to see real change.
What Have You Tried Before That Didn't Work?
Let me guess: You've read the books, tried positive thinking, maybe even started making changes... but then the people around you pulled you back. Your family questioned why you needed to change. Your colleagues made comments about your "new attitude." Your partner didn't understand why you couldn't just be happy with how things were.
This is the number one reason women fail at transformation – they try to go it alone, and the people in their lives (often unconsciously) sabotage their progress because change feels threatening to them. I agree with the old saying that we become the average of the 5 people closest to us. This may require having a hard look at those people and maybe changing one or two.
That's exactly why this programme includes ongoing support and a community of women who are on the same journey. You won't be doing this alone, and you'll have tools to handle the pushback that inevitably comes when you start stepping into your power.
This Is For You If...
You're a mid-career woman, probably a people manager or working mother, who's tired of living a life you've outgrown. You're ready to do the inner work required for real transformation, and you understand that change takes effort – but you're done going it alone.
This Is NOT For You If:
You're hoping others will change so you don't have to.
You're not open to different perspectives and self-awareness.
You think development ends and one day you'll be "fully formed."
You're afraid to step into your real self.
What Happens If You Don't Act Now?
Here's the hard truth: if you don't address the root cause – your relationship with yourself – nothing will change. You'll keep reading books that don't work. You'll keep starting and stopping because you don't have support. You'll keep putting off your dreams until "someday."
And someday never comes.
The women who are close to burnout, who are just "hanging on" and trying to get through each day, often tell me they're afraid it's too late. They're terrified they'll reach retirement having lived an unfulfilled life, with their potential unrealised.
But it's not too late. Not if you act now.
The Woman Behind the Method Who Understands Your Struggle
I'm Jill Saville, and I've been exactly where you are. I used to be afraid to stop working because if I took a day off, I couldn't get back onto the hamster wheel. I took my children to a pantomime and sat with my laptop, thinking I'd done my job by just being there – completely missing the point of being truly present.
For 20 years, I stayed at the same grade in the civil service. I went for promotion after promotion, always unprepared and nervous, never succeeding. Nothing changed until I got a coach and dared to break the pattern. Then I moved into another department – three grades higher.
That experience taught me everything I bring to my work today. I've invested almost £100,000 in my own development to find out what actually works, so I can shorten other women's journeys.
My credentials include:
Master Certified Coach (MCC)
Certified Positive Intelligence Coach (CPQC)
Certified Brain Based Coach (BBC)
Process Communication Model Coach and Trainer
Conversational Intelligence Coach (C-IQ)
MA in Social Security Management, University of York
I've worked with leaders in partnership with the United Nations System Staff College, partners in accounting and legal firms such as PWC and KPMG, women leaders in the N.I. public sector and countless private clients including professional musicians and academics.
My mission is simple: to help you see the potential I see in you and dare to reach for it.
Your Next Step: Choose Your Path Forward
You have two options right now:
OPTION 1: Close this page and go back to the hamster wheel. Keep telling yourself you'll figure it out later. Keep living half a life and hoping things will magically change.
OPTION 2: Take the first step toward the professional life you actually want. Book a discovery call where we'll uncover what's really holding you back and create a clear plan for your transformation.
The women who choose Option 2 are the ones who finally break free from overwhelm and self-doubt. They're the ones who stop living for others and start living for themselves. They're the ones who achieve what they once thought was impossible.
Which woman will you be?
Remember: You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to be ready to begin.
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